In Sunday’s Gospel, Jesus is challenged by Pharisees who are more concerned about the letter of the law than the spirit of the law. Much like the Pharisees, we can sometimes be quick to judge others. We believe in the value of the faith formation classes we offer and might harshly judge parents (and their children) who want to register past the deadline, haven’t sent their children to class consistently, or don’t even show up for Sunday Mass. They’re not living by our rules!
While we should be glad they’re making the effort—we might judge it insufficient, but it’s better than no effort at all—our judgment of them might come through in our tone of voice on the phone, sigh of frustration, or even unconsciously in our treatment of the children involved.
Jesus met people where they are. We need to do the same. Most people are doing the best they can in challenging circumstances. No one’s life is free of stress, and everyday life seems to be moving at a frantic pace for many people. Families today are pulled in many directions.
We need to sincerely welcome parents and children, whatever their circumstances. It’s only when they see that we really care about them that they will be open to seeking and receiving the “something more” that we and our Church so fervently desire for them.
We pray that you will tap into the heart of Jesus and sincerely welcome all the parents and children God is calling you to minister to.
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